Advice For New College Freshmen From College Students

We asked recent graduates and current upperclassmen from around the country for their advice for incoming college freshmen. This is what they said.

“1. Don’t dismiss your parents, and call them often. You’ll find yourself leaving for your senior year way too soon, and you’ll realize you’re about to lose those summers at home and time to just sit with your family.

2. Take your classes seriously the first couple of years, even if they’re really easy! Having some A’s to soften the blow of your first 4000 level class is a wonderful thing. 3. More than anything, don’t get caught up in checking things off a list. It’s easy to get stressed and stop trying to have fun, but even studying can be fun if you’re determined to enjoy the moment. 4. Really try to make friends in your freshman classes, especially in your major. My four absolute best friends and I were all in the same BIO 1399 class, and we never hung out until late sophomore year. We all joke about how silly it is now, but it would have been awesome to have known them from day one.”

Laura Bernitsky, High Point University ‘16

“Try everything and anything because you never know what you are going to end up loving and who you will meet along the way.”

Gwen Widicus, University of Maryland College Park ‘15

“Get involved with an organization that interests you, whether it be a club, sports team, Greek Life, etc. College is all about finding out who you are and what you like. Surround yourself with people that enable you to succeed and who you can also have some fun with. I joined a fraternity my freshman year and now that it’s all said and done, I can look back and call many of the people I met my lifelong friends.

Being part of an organization teaches you so many lessons that will be applied throughout the rest of your life. I know I won’t forget all the friendships I made, the great times I had, and certainly the lessons I learned.”

Kevin Muldoon, Pennsylvania State University ‘15

“If you don’t know [something], ask for help. College professors want to see you succeed. Don’t be afraid of asking for help from them.”

Maria Raffinello, Arizona State University ‘13

“Don’t be afraid to do something weird! Whether that’s a new activity you’ve never tried or a bizarre event on campus, just go for it. You’ll meet interesting people, and even if it’s terrible it’ll be something to talk about with new friends. “

Katie Brennan, University of St. Andrews ‘15

“College is a great chance for you to get to know ‘you.’ Don’t feel confined by who you used to be, and let yourself grow. Don’t be scared to start over and be who or what you’ve always wanted to be. Be true to yourself always and make friends along the way. It’s not easy at times, and it can be scary too but no matter what, make the most of it.”

Jen Zweiger, Kutztown University of Pennsylvania ‘14

“Don’t hinge your college experience on everything being perfect. There will be your fair share of awkward moments, late study nights, and miscellaneous struggles you face. Everyone goes through them, and they are really what help you to grow during this time. Keep an open mind and heart, and do laundry at random times to avoid waiting for machines.”

Meredith Ahlmeyer, Villanova University ‘15

“Get recommendations from older students on which professors to take. It helps you create a balanced schedule so you don’t overwhelm yourself. Also, try to grab coffee or lunch with different people at least once a week. It’s important to put yourself out there and vary your connections.”